Tuesday 3 May 2022

Tuesday, May 3 2022

 "Art is simply the name for how you live your life 

and how you tell others what you think and feel."

~ Karen Magsamen, Living Artfully ~

So yesterday I suggested to Mr P that we make the Peanut Soup which we both love. He went to the grocery store nice and early and bought all the ingredients and we started putting it together in our slow cooker. Unfortunately the recipe makes more than our cooker can hold so we had to transfer it to a large soup pot on the stove. It still worked out nicely and our house smelled like peanuts and spices all day. We now have SO MUCH soup that we'll be eating it for days, especially since my dad didn't seem too keen on it (he did eat it though). I try now to stretch his taste buds too much these days and usually try to make sure he has a choice of something he likes. There's always a frozen dinner in the freezer for nights when we want to enjoy something a little too spicy for him.

Mr P went to have our winter tires changed over to the summer ones and he decided we really needed to buy new tires so he'll have to go back today and have that done. *Sigh* I hate that expense especially since we aren't really driving anywhere this year. But it is a matter of safety especially when we have the grands as passengers.

Our Soup

Listening: WETA VivaLaVoce on Radio Garden (also on WETA.org) L'elisir d'amore: Act II by Gaetano Donizetti. What a joy to listen to opera again!  I was scrolling around the globe on Radio Garden this morning and nothing sounded right until I searched for classical stations and found WETA from Washington. I dusted off my massive opera guide books and read the synopses of this opera. It's delightful though I'm surprised my husband is still sitting in the room with me. I used to love going to the opera in Bucharest, Prague, and even in Albania. You could enjoy precious gems of performances for a very low cost. I had a few girlfriends who also loved opera and we even formed an opera club where we would study the operas together before attending the performances. It was a beautiful time in my life. I miss it but I can still read. listen, and learn on my own of course.

Weather: -1c when we got up ay 5 am but it's gloriously sunny and will hit 16c later today!

Feeling: Happy and content which is nice for a change. 

Hearing: Early morning birds.... a very loud and happy sounding Cardinal and Mr P said he thought he heard an owl.

Here's the soup recipe!

Tomato and Peanut Soup with Sweet Potato and Chickpeas

(From The Soup Sisters and Broth Brothers Cookbook)

Ingredients

1Tbsp vegetable oil

1 onion, chopped

2 Tbsp peeled and grated ginger

3 gloves garlic, minced

1-2 jalepenos, seeded and finely chopped (we used a large red pepper instead)

2 tsp chili powder

1 1/2 tsp ground cumin

1 tsp salt

4 cups chicken or vegetable broth (or water)

1 19oz can chickpeas, drained and rinsed

3 tomatoes chopped or 1 19oz can diced or whole tomatoes with juice

1 lg sweet potato, peeled and diced

1 large carrot, peeled and diced

1/4 to 1/3 cup crunchy or smooth peanut butter

1/4 cup finely chopped cilantro stems (reserve the leaves for garnisgh)

1 handful of torn kale or swiss chard leaves (we used spinach- probably 3 handfuls)

plain yogurt or sour cream, chopped peanuts and cilantro for garnish

To Make (on stovetop):

1. Heat the oil in a large pot over medium heat. Add the onion. Cook, stirring often, until the onion is softened.

2. Add the ginger, garlic, and peppers. Cook, stirring often, for 1-2 minutes.

3. Add the chili powder, cumin, and sale. Cook, stirring often, for 1 minutes.

4. Add the stock, chickpeas, tomatoes, sweet potato, carrot, peanut butter and cilantro stems. Bring to a boil.

5. Reduce the heat and simmer, uncovered, until the vegetables are tender, 20-30 minutes. Stir in the kale/spinach if using and cook until it wilts, 2-3 minutes. 

6. Serve with generous dollops of yogurt and cilantro/peanuts.

Makes about 8 servings (at least!) and you could also serve it over rice for a delicious curry.





Monday 2 May 2022

Monday, May 2 2022

 "Ideas are like children,

your own are beautiful."

(I wrote this in my book of quotations but I didn't note who said it!)

Earlier this morning hubby and I were chatting about the ages of our two children and oh my how can they be 'that old' already? Our daughter is going to be 42 this summer and our son will be 40 on his next birthday. We're lucky to live about 15 minutes from our son and his beautiful family and we can see them as often as we wish. We try to help out with the kids when needed but with Covid around we are being very careful. The kids take tests whenever we need to be with them. Our daughter, unfortunately, lives far away in Toronto and it's been a long, long time since we've seen her. She had tickets to come see us in the spring of 2022 but those were cancelled because of Covid. We're trying to figure out a good time for her visit but she has her own small boutique so it's hard for her to get away. Thinking about her makes me teary today. 


Some of my cookbooks

Cooking: The Soup Sisters and Broth Brothers Cookbook. I think soup is my very favourite food in the world! I truly could eat it every day and never get tired of it. I had to convince Mr P to learn to like soup in the beginning because his memory of soup was limited to his mom's watery Dutch broth with meatballs the size of peas. I love hearty, stew-like soups and brothy, Asian-style as well. Today I am planning to make one of our favourites- a thick and spicy African Peanut Soup.

Reading: Whip Smart by Melissa Febos. This woman is an amazing writer and human being. Brutally honest and authentic. I don't know how she does it. This book is about her experiences as a professional dominatrix! 

Loving: Daphne's Diary. This is such a sweet and beautiful magazine that I decided last year that I needed a subscription. It's just brimming with beauty and positivity and I learn about interesting artists every month. I just renewed my subscription.

Waiting: The hummingbirds are now arriving in Yarmouth which is about 3 hours south west from us! A few have been spotted in the area so hopefully we will be seeing them soon. Because of the avian flu we aren't allowed to put out our birdfeeders but hummingbird feeders are apparently allowed so we'll be getting them ready very shortly. And btw, an Indigo Bunting is attracting attention in Dartmouth at the moment. I guess it's a bit of a rare sighting and I wish I could go see it!

Weather: Lovely sunshine and 5c, with a high of about 13c later this afternoon. I am already hearing several neighbours outside puttering around with various gardening machines. 

Sunday 1 May 2022

Sunday, May 1 2022

 "Friendship affirms life!"

~Alexandra Stoddard~

Happy May Day to everyone! At least we have a little sunshine this morning though that will change after noon. I've had a lovely morning so far with my journaling, writing, reading and creating at my desk. This is definitely my happy place and when I am sitting her looking out my window it seems my worries start to fade away. For years I was addicted to watching the news (especially CNN) but at the start of the year I decided to completely stop that habit. It was just affecting me far too much, and in really harmful ways. My dad still watches it and sometimes wants to discuss something with me but I put my hand up and say "stop". I just can't bear the news, especially of Ukraine and the horrors of war. I still get some of it through friends on Facebook but I can scroll past when I don't want to read it. You have to protect your spirit you know. 

I can't wait for my lilacs to bloom!
They are in bud at the moment and it won't be long now.

Listening: Lindin FM radio from Torshavn (Thor's Harbour) on the Faroe Islands (Radio Garden) It's lovely Christian music- a mix of just about every kind- and on a Sunday morning it's perfect. I didn't know that the Faroe Islands are part of Denmark!

Reading: Mythos, by Stephen Fry What a fabulous book! Since I am reading about Greek art this week I thought it would be a good time to brush up on the Greek myths and I already knew about this book so I bought it on Kindle and jumped right in. Fry is such a story teller and makes it easy to remember the whole history. 

Watching: Midsomer Murders Season 18 Episode 3 We are loving this series simply because it never takes itself seriously and is never gruesome. There's a bit of a formula in it but that makes it fun.


Saturday 30 April 2022

Saturday, April 30 2022

 "We are all born for love.

It is the principle of existence

and its only end."

~Benjamin Disraeli~

Before Covid and during the two years when masks were required and also vaccine passports were used in Restaurants we took dad out for dinner every Friday evening, usually to his favourite place where he would always order the spaghetti. However, now with masks no longer required, and no vaccine passports either, we've decided not to go to restaurants. Instead we do takeouts on Friday nights and while it's nice it's definitely not the same. Last night we got A&W hamburgers and fries, which was delicious and of course the best part is I didn't have to cook or clean-up. Today the Blue Jays are on tv at 4 so I'm thinking something easy like hotdogs. The problem is we like them for one meal but since the packages have 10 hotdogs, they sit in the fridge for a long, long time. Then I sniff them and toss them.

After dinner last night I quietly confessed to hubby that I was about to get a small delivery from Amazon. He asked me what it was and I am sure I blushed as I told him "pens- you know- in case I run out". He laughed at me and said "as if". He's right of course but there were new colours of my favourite pens and I absolutely needed them. Didn't I? You have to admit I have a small addiction but he should be thankful it's not  diamonds. 




The New Colours

Mr P got the taxes done and yippee! we get a nice refund. More pens? LOL!

Weather: 6c and cloudy all day

Reading: about early Greek art in 'History of Art', which led to ordering a book of Greek Mythology on my Kindle. Both Mr P and I love the myths and love to discuss them, He always teaches me stuff since his degree is in Classics. His memory is still really good about the subject. Lucky me!


Listening: Radio Apollon, Athens Greece, on Radio Garden This goes perfectly with the Greek art history and the myths. I know nothing about wine but I sort of understand the feeling that a sommelier would have when I pair the appropriate music with what I am reading about. It's such a fun app!



Friday 29 April 2022

Friday, April 29 2022

 "I learned that stories are important, that they are the way our souls are made visible to others."

~Clive Doucet~ (Notes From Exile: On Being Acadian)

Had a bit of a scare this morning! dad usually comes upstairs at precisely 7 am for coffee and breakfast so when I heard him coming up at 6:30 I was a bit concerned. I am the one who looks after his diabetes and his insulin so I am always a bit worried about his blood sugars overnight. Being blind now he can't do it for himself since it would be easy to make serious mistakes. However, this morning it wasn't a blood sugar issue but he had had a fall during the night. So we discussed it and he pulled his shirt up to show me his back. "Ohhhh Dad" I said "You've got a pretty bad gash there!" And it was quite bad at first glance. About 10" long and very red. So far there's no bruising but I think that will develop. Good thing I have a well-equipped first aid kit and I had everything I needed to get him cleaned up. After wiping it clean it didn't appear quite so serious, just a long line of broken skin on the surface. So that's good. I put some antibiotic cream on it and a light bandage and I'll check it later this morning. The hard part was trying to figure out exactly why he fell. He just had his 2nd booster on Wednesday and he wasn't feeling great last night when I helped him with his nightly needs. I thought he had a bit of a fever and his arm was sore. He said he was very disoriented around midnight when he got up to use the bathroom and couldn't find his light switch and the door. He must have tripped or bumped into his desk. He really doesn't know, but he says he sat on the floor for some time and couldn't get up. Eventually he did and got back to sleep. I've got to figure out some better lighting for him- perhaps a gadget or a motion detector type. Plus I think I'll get him a stationary walker (without wheels) to have right beside his bed. Anyhow... now I just need to keep the wound very clean and help him heal. As we age, especially with diabetes, everything takes so much longer to get better. I'm thankful he didn't hit his head or break anything!

Reading: Girlhood by Melissa Febos, brilliant and oh-so-honest essays about growing up

Watching: Midsomer Murders on Amazon Prime. We started watching this series at the beginning of February and we're now on Season 18 of 22. This is our afternoon pleasure several times a week, with baseball being our evening choice. Go Jays!

 Shopping: Yesterday was 'senior's day' at our local pharmacy and I remembered to take advantage of the discount. We save up points from our groceries and pharmacy purchases and then I splurge by buying books! They have a small but up-to-date selection and I almost always find a few new novels to buy. They are always 25% off the cover price (which is nice), then I get the senior's discount of another 20%, and then I use my points to pay for everything! I got 5 books and ended up paying $3.67!!! Plus when you spent over $50 you get a $10 card for future purchases! Can't beat that deal!

Weather: 4c, overcast and not looking like spring. The tulips are coming up but still have a ways to go.



Thursday 28 April 2022

Thursday, April 28 2022

"The goodness that thou mayest do this day, do it!"

~Chaucer~

What good advice from a 14th c writer! It is good to be reminded to do good. Sometimes we're feeling lazy, or distracted, and simply can't be bothered to get up off our bums and do good. It's essentially the same as being kind. I have two people in my daily life, my husband, and my dad. I think I'll try to keep this little phrase in mind today as I interact with them. It's also an important reminder of something else. There's a song on right now as I am writing and a line in it says "be good to yourself". I tend to do this early in the day when I enjoy reading, creating art, and learning new things. It's a rather concentrated time for me so let's see if I can spread this out a bit more over the course of my day. 

Listening: Radio Rizites, Kissamos, Crete, Greece on Radio Garden. I'm not sure what I'm listening to exactly. It sounds like traditional Greek music but it also sounds sort of churchy. I think the announcer just said something about "musica historica" so I guess that's traditional. There's a touch of the middle east in there too and I can imagine the old men dancing to it.

Reading: Jansen's History of Art -Aegean Art- which includes Crete, the Cycladic Islands just north of Crete, and and the Greek mainland. We loved visiting Crete and Athens, but our favourite was Thessalonica. It is glorious to be surrounded by ancient history while enjoying the delicious Greek food!

Weather: 5c and fairly foggy this morning. It looks like a long stretch of wet weather for at least 10 days. I told my dad (who's blind now) that it was foggy outside and he said "What? Froggy!?" We had a chuckle about that.

Library Checkouts: 

  • Hotel Du Lac, Anita Brookner I can't remember which one of her books I read a long, long time ago but I do recall that I enjoyed it. So I put a couple on hold and they arrived today.
  • Strangers, Anita Brookner
  • Graounded Spirituality, Jeff Brown I follow Jeff Brown on Facebook and I like his vibe but now that I have the book in my hands I'm not so sure I can get into it. We'll see.



Wednesday 27 April 2022

Wednesday, April 27 2022

 "We are indeed much more than what we eat, but what we eat can nevertheless help us to be much more than what we are."

~ Adelle Davis ~

I'm wondering, does anyone grow old without health issues? Is it possible to age and not have diabetes, heart problems, high cholesterol? My husband and I are both in our 60's and it seems that everyday we get out of bed and ask each other "how do you feel?" Sometimes it's about our feelings but usually it's about our aging bodies. "How's your neck? Your shoulder? Your hip? Your foot?" A good day is when all questions can be answered positively. "All good." You have to careful how you walk, how you sit, how you sleep. Everything you do always has an underlying concern- how will this affect my body? I'm diabetic so I have to think about everything I eat, how much insulin to use, how much exercise I do. I watched my mom grow old with so many health issues and I don't want to be the same. Dad, who lives with us, is 85 and is relatively healthy. He mainly deals with his diabetes, which I help manage. But still, it's an unending list of doctor's appointments and blood tests for all of us. When you're young who thinks about health? I hardly did. You really do think that you'll live for a good long time without worries. Unfortunately, life catches up with you and everything you've ever done seems to affect the waning years of your life. If I could I'd warn the younger people in my life to be more careful, make better choices, look before you leap, but honestly, who would listen?

Listening: Radiodowntown on Radio Garden; Knowing Me, Knowing You by ABBA

Reading: Girlhood by Melissa Febos. What an honest writer! She writes brilliantly with such beautiful language and insight. 

Weather: 5c and cloudy. The week ahead is full of rain... sigh.

Drinking: Tetley Immunity. Dusted off my sweet brown teapot and made a full pot today, and am using the cute mug hubby bought me recently.




Tuesday 26 April 2022

Tuesday, April 26 2022

 "Stop the habit of wishful thinking and start the habit of thoughtful wishes."

~ Mary Martin ~

What a great morning! Waking up to news that both our teams won their games last night. Hurray to the Jays and to the Raptors! Last night I deleted my Twitter account after hearing the news about Elon Musk buying the platform. It's about to become a hotbed of hatred and anyway I have been avoiding it lately because it makes my anxiety rise. Gotta take care of me. Chatted with Miss B yesterday about her pending move to the UK and how exciting it is for her! I can't wait to go for a visit. Praying that all her planning goes smoothly and everything works out perfectly.

Cooking: Pasta and Kidney Bean Soup or Pasta e Fagioli from Italian Favorites (Williams-Sonoma) I was going to make this yesterday but I forgot to buy the pancetta/bacon. I love this cookbook. It has some of my favourite Italian recipes and I've used it a lot over the years.

Drinking: Tetley Immune Tea (lots of zinc and echinacea)

Reading: History of Art (Jansen), Chapter 3, Sumerian Art

Listening to: Radio Shafaq, Erbil, Iraq on Radio Garden (as close to Sumer as I could find) Surprisingly not as conservative as I had expected. They have female voices as singers/announcers/advertisers and the music is catchy enough. It makes me feel like dancing!

Weather: 7c and sunny at 8:30 am. Looks like a beautiful day ahead! Thinking of doing some work in the garden and hoping to get some bulbs planted.

Library Pick Ups:   

  • Girlhood (essays) by Melissa Febos I really enjoyed Abandon Me last week
  • Snow Country by Sebastian Faulks I remembered how much I loved Birdsong
  • No One Is Talking About This by Patricia Lockwood Should be interesting because it's about the impact of social media on a woman's life.

Pasta and Kidney Bean Soup

1 can white kidney beans (the recipe uses dried but I want a faster soup)

2 Tbsp extra-virgin olive oil

2 oz (60g) pancetta or bacon, finely chopped

1 yellow onion, finely chopped

2 cloves garlic, minced

3 tomatoes, peeled, seeded and chopped (fresh or canned- I use canned)

1 Tbsp chopped fresh sage

Pinch of red pepper flakes

Salt and freshly ground pepper

4 cups (1 L) chicken or vegetable stock

3/4 cup dried small pasta such as shells or macaroni

6 Tbsp grated pecorino romano or parmesan cheese

In a soup pot over medium-low heat, warm the olive oil. Add the pancetta, onion, garlic and saute slowly, stirring until the onion is soft, about 12 minutes.

Add the tomatoes, sage, red pepper flakes, and salt and pepper to taste. Simmer for about 20 minutes. Add the beans and stock and simmer for about 30 minutes longer to blend the flavours. The beans will be very tender and the soup will become stewlike.

Add the pasta to the soup and simmer, uncovered, until the pasta is al dente, 12-15 minutes. The timing depends on the type of pasta.

Ladle the soup into warmed bowls. Garnish with the cheese and serve immediately.

Serves 6





Monday 25 April 2022

Monday, April 25 2022

 "Success is important only to the extent that it puts one in a position to do more things one likes to do."

~ Sarah Caldwell ~ (American Opera Conductor)

I am a notetaker. I make notes about everything. I make lists, I write in a daily planner, I keep journals, and I have shelves of blank notebooks. I love words, I love reading, I love writing, and I love discovering things. At 63 I am still a student of so many things. Things I've loved since childhood- like dollhouses, and things I'm just now discovering- like British history. One is never too old to learn. Yesterday I dusted off my massive History of Art by H.W. Jansen (well over 600 pages) and decided it is time to actually read it. I do a lot of reading in the early hours of the day, usually starting by 5 AM. I break for a bite to eat at around 7 and then get back to my desk for a couple more hours. I'm simply happy during these hours. I read, study, make notes, and even make art/collages when the impulse stirs. A lot of the time I'm staring out my office window sort of meditating as the sun rises. 

Listening to: Italy Classic Radio on Radio Garden 

Weather: 3c as I rise with a high of about 15c later today (I am hopeful)

Reading: Pictures and Tears by James Elkins (a reread of a favourite book)

Feeling: Slightly anxious without a precise cause- it\s probably just the world

Playing: Wordle- competing secretly with two people




Sunday 24 April 2022

Sunday, April 24 2022

"Every time we make the decision to love someone, we open ourselves to great suffering, because those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. The greatest pain comes from leaving... if we want to avoid suffering of leaving, we will never experience the joy of loving. And love is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking." 

~Henry Nouwen~

Listening to: Shetland Internet Radio, Bigton, UK on Radio Garden

Thinking on: Women Who Run With the Wolves Chapter 7

Learning from: Janson's History of Art, Introduction

Weather: 2c, cloudy with gusty winds

Feeling: Serene



Tuesday, May 3 2022

  "Art is simply the name for how you live your life  and how you tell others what you think and feel." ~ Karen Magsamen, Living A...